“Good Morning World! What comes to your mind, when I say that today, is a new hour following after yet another hollow holidays disaster? And knowing that another holiday, or HOLLOW DAY has again come your way. What were you expecting to happen the hours after the latest HOLLOW HOLIDAY? Likewise, what will, happen in the hours following after yet another disappointing HOLLOW Days disaster? And with Holiday’s, also HOLLOW DAYS coming your way every month. With another day coming in faster, Will you be able to SURVIVE the hours AFTER…. THAT WILL BE following another Disaster! So, asking you those Following AFTER THE DISASTER questions, while still knowing that you all need to find a way to SURVIVE THE FACTS OF LIFE. WITH SOME OF YOU STILL HATING YOUR MOTHER. What CONFUSING CONFLICTING feelings are you still experiencing after yet another HOLLOW DAYS-HOLIDAY DISASTER that has again taken away some of your time! And thinking about what HAPPENS AFTER A DISASTER in many different ways. What is a HOLLOW, HOLIDAY DAY ANYWAY? And what does a HOLLOW, HOLIDAY have to do with YOUR MOTHER OR DISASTERS? So, wondering what that double HOLLOW HOLIDAY wording means to things coming AFTER. Following the hours AFTER yet ANOTHER HOLIDAYS DISASTER. The fact that another HOLLOW Days Holiday…. has come your way. Then has gone away, while it hurt your heart… ALSO MESSED WITH YOUR HEAD, and left you empty and devoid of fun….. WITH SOME OF YOU WISHING YOU OR YOUR MOTHER WERE DEAD. Means for some of us… INCLUDING ME…THAT MOTHER’S DAY WAS RATHER DISAPPOINTING! And in many ways with MOTHER’S DAY LEAVING ME FEELING EMPTY, AND NOT COMPLETE. IN THAT HOLLOW WAY, THE HOLIDAY HAS ALSO LEFT ME SILENTLY DEAD and CRYING INSIDE. BECAUSE I KNOW MY MOTHER DIED. AND EVEN THOUGH I AM ALIVE, WITHOUT SEEING MY KIDS ON MOTHERS DAY I LIKEWISE KIND OF FEEL DEAD INSIDE. So, knowing MOTHER’S DAY…. MIGHT HAVE LIKEWISE BEEN SLIGHTLY DEPRESSING FOR YOU TOO IN SOME WAYS. TO FIND THE WAY TO SURVIVE THE FACTS OF LIFE! Exactly what do the ABOVE HOLLOW DAY DISASTER statements really mean to your Holidays, YOUR LIFE and TO YOU ALSO YOUR INSIDES? Bottom line, what is a HOLLOW DAYS, HOLIDAY? And thinking about the words HOLLOW also HOLIDAY and DISASTER. WHAT DOES ANY OF THAT HAVE TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE AND THE TIME COMING AFTER! Bottom line, what does FEELING DEPRESSED, AND SLIGHTLY LET DOWN in a different HOLLOW way… with nobody around to HELP YOU celebrate MOTHERS DAY…. WHAT DOES THAT DISASTER HAVE TO DO WITH HOW YOU FEEL EVERYDAY!….. And with some of you unable to FIND THE BEST THINGS IN LIFE does that mean that another HOLLOW DAY…. HAS AGAIN LEFT BEHIND A LOT OF MESSES AND STRESS IN YOUR TIME LINE! And in those MESSES, ALSO STRESSES while FEELING DEPRESSED, AND SLIGHTLY LET DOWN in a different HOLLOW way, with nobody around to HELP YOU GET THROUGH THE DAY. Has MOTHERS DAY…. also LEFT BEHIND A LOT OF DEVASTATION STRESS. Likewise in that DEVASTATION while FEELING DEPRESSED, AND SLIGHTLY LET DOWN in a different HOLLOW way, with nobody around to HELP YOU celebrate MOTHERS DAY. Has the HOLLOW DAY LEFT BEHIND A LOT OF UN-REST? AND KNOWING SOME OF OUR MOTHERS HAVE ALREADY DIED AND LEFT US BEHIND. JUST AS LEAVING US BEHIND….. SOME OF OUR KIDS ARE LIKEWISE PRETENDING WE ARE NOT ALIVE. HAS THE DISASTER FOLLOWING MOTHER’S DAY, LEFT BEHIND A LOT OF DEPRESSION. HAS THE DISASTER FOLLOWING MOTHER’S DAY PRODUCED A LOT OF STRESS? HAS THE DISASTER FOLLOWING MOTHER’S DAY, LEFT BEHIND A LOT OF SAD MEMORIES YOU ARE TRYING TO SUPRESS. HAS THE DISASTER FOLLOWING MOTHER’S DAY LEFT BEHIND A BIG MENTAL MESS! HAS THE DISASTER FOLLOWING MOTHER’S DAY, LEFT BEHIND A LOT OF TESTS ON YOUR PATIENCE! BOTTOM LINE, UNABLE TO SMILE OR REST, WHILE RUNNING OUT OF PATIENCE! HAS THE DISASTER FOLLOWING MOTHERS DAY, LEFT BEHIND A BIG TEST. So knowing THAT MOTHERS DAY WAS EITHER HAPPY OR CRAPPY! Were you an Appreciated Mother, with children who spoiled you and who gave you rest? Were you an Appreciated Mother, with children who took away your stress? Were you an Appreciated Mother, with children who CLEANED UP THEIR MESS? Were you an Appreciated Mother, with children who spoiled you and gave you PRESENTS? Were you an Appreciated Mother, with children who spoiled you, and who gave you breakfast in bed! Or being slightly DEPRESSED, WHILE TRYING TO CLEAN UP YOUR EMOTIONAL MESS. DEALING WITH THE STRESS THAT YOU ARE STILL TRYING TO SUPRESS…… BY NOT PASSING THE MOTHER’S DAY TEST! WERE YOU A MOTHER WHO DID NOT GET ANY PRESENTS! WERE YOU A MOTHER WHO DID NOT GET ANY FRIGIN BREAKFAST IN BED! WERE YOU A MOTHER WHO HAD TO CLEAN UP THE MESS! WERE YOU A MOTHER WHO GOT NO REST! WERE YOU A MOTHER WHO WAS STRESSED! WERE YOU A MOTHER WHO DID NOT PASS THE MOTHERING TEST! And in that sad UNAPPRECIATED situation, is today yet another HOLLOW Day Following AFTER another HOLIDAYS DISASTER… THAT HAS BEEN CAUSING YOU TO BE DEPRESSED! So knowing that there are some of you… AND ME TOO who are dealing with DEPRSSION, STRESS, MESSES, and UNREST SINCE YOUR CHILDREN ARE MIA AND YOUR MOTHERS DAY WAS NOT QUITE THE BEST! While FEELING LIKE YOU ARE FLUNKING THE MOTHERING TESTS! Asking you those Two sided HOLLOW HOLIDAY questions! Exactly what all is involved with…SURVIVING a HOLLOW HOLIDAY’S MESS? Also what will be involved in SURVIVING The Hours following After THE UNREST! Bottom line. WHAT HAPPENS THE DAY AFTER THE LAST HOLLOW DAYS DIASTER? Well I guess it all depends if you are still Celebrating the last Holiday filled with smiles and laughter. Or if SUFFERING through YET another DEPRESSING, STRESSFUL, UNRESTFUL, MESSY, HOLLOW DAY’S DIASTER, YOU ARE STILL UNABLE TO SUPRESS your SADNESS. And STRUGGLING through another DEPRESSING, STRESSFUL UNRESTFUL, MESSY, HOLLOW DAY’S MEMORY, YOU have NOT FOUND THE WAY TO BE HAPPY. And SUFFERING through another DEPRESSING, STRESSFUL, UNRESTFUL, MESSY, HOLLOW DAY’S DIASTER YOU CAN’T SUPRESS YOUR DEPRESSION. AND BEING SLIGHTLY DEVASTATED, SINCE YOUR CHILDREN ARE GONE AND YOUR MOTHERS DAY WAS NOT QUITE THE BEST, OR NOT AS NICE AS IT USED TO BE. WHILE YOUR KIDS KEEP PRETENDING YOU ARE NOT ALIVE. AND ONE MORE TIME YOU FELT LIKE YOU ARE FLUNKING YOUR MOTHERING SKILLS DAY AND NIGHT! FEELING LIKE YOU KEEP FLUNKING YOUR MOTHERING TESTS ALL OF THE TIME! That means, RIGHT NOW you are SILENLTY Wailing, WHILE FEELING EMPTY, and CRYING INSIDE…So, now I am wondering if that is the case AFTER the HOLLOW hours EVAPORATED. With you feeling that EMPTY WAY. WITH YOUR DAYS FULL OF PAIN. WILL YOU CONTINUE TO BE HAUNTED BY THE LAST HOLLOW DAYS DISATER IN YOUR LIFE EVERYDAY! OR WAIT!! IS THERE A WAY TO SURVIVE THE MORNING AFTER the DISASTER? IS THERE A WAY TO SURVIVE THE OTHER DAYS…BOTTOM LINE IS THERE A WAY TO SURVIVE MOTHERS DAY! Therefore stating that BEFORE AND AFTER SURVIVAL fact……. one way or the other. TO FIND HAPPINESS EVEN WHEN YOU CAN’T FIND A REASON TO SMILE.. Let me ask you again in the lessons you have or have NOT LEARNED over the miles. Was your Mother’s day.. Yet another hit, or miss HOLLOW Day Disaster! WAS THERE ANY HAPPINESS FOLLOWING AFTER! Okay what I am really asking is…..will the hours following AFTER be yet another TIME when your Mother smothered you with kisses and filled your world with laughter! Or are the DARK hours following AFTER yet another day AFTER the OTHER latest HOLLOW Day’s DIASTER! Bottom line, are the hours following after…… full of a lot of black things that have crashed into more trashed memories that have no laughter. AND OF GREAT IMPORTANCE IS THERE A WAY TO SURVIVE THE DIASTER FOLLOWING AFTER! IS THERE A WAY TO SURVIVE MOTHERS DAY? AND OF MORE IMPORTANCE IS THERE A WAY TO SURVIVE THE OTHER DAYS! So IN REVIEW thinking that way TOO, was Mother’s Day a celebration for you? Or with black and blue thoughts crashing down around you as the HOLLOW HOLIDAY left your heart in tatters…. Was your Mother’s day……. a complete HOLLOW DAY DIASATER? Accordingly thinking about things in many different ways always going back to the time of wine, roses, smiles and laugher were you HAPPY. Or again Was your last HOLLOW day a DEVASATING Disaster? And in the hours following after…. With the roses slowly withering as we speak. And NOTHING left of the candy EXCEPT CALORIES. With only crumbs remaining on your beds mattress! DID ANYTHING ON MOTHERS DAY REALLY MATTER? And asking you those tricky BEFORE AND AFTER questions seeing things two different ways. I am now wondering….. With most things turning into Disasters…. that we cannot escape! WITH A LIMITED WAY TO CELEBRATE. WHAT’S SO great about MOTHER’S DAY ANYWAY! ADDITIONALLY KNOWING THAT NOT EVERYBODY WILL BE HAPPY. WHAT’S SO GREAT ABOUT THE HOLLOW HOLIDAYS? So not knowing if there is a Difference between HOLLOW DAYS AND HOLIDAYS since for some of you THE TWO look to be the same! IS THERE A WAY TO CHANGE A DISASTER INTO A HAPPY DAY AFTER? CAN HAPPINESS LAST? IS THERE A WAY TO SURVIVE YOUR PRESENT, FUTURE AND PAST! AND WHAT REALLY DOES MATTER! Bottom line. What will it take….. or what will it TAKE OUT OF YOU to survive Another HOLLOW Day AFTER? WHAT WILL IT TAKE TO GET YOUR GOOD MEMORIES BACK! WHAT WILL IT TAKE TO GET YOUR LIFE BACK ON TRACK! And, If your Mother’s day, was not great in the hours following after. CAN YOU GET YOUR TIME BACK ON TRACK IF YOUR LIFE IS A DISASTER? Bottom line one more time IF YOUR MOTHER DIED, AND YOUR KIDS ARE PRETENDING THAT YOU ARE NOT ALIVE! How can you find your way BACK FROM THE DISASTER! Well asking those conflicting questions once again… I think we can each agree that there’s only one way to get things back on track. There’s only one way to bring the GOOD TIMES BACK! Likewise, while trying to SURVIVE THE FACTS OF LIFE! There’s only one way to mend a cracked broken heart. Additionally, there’s only one way to make life sweet from the start. Because there’s only one way to turn a DIASATER AFTER the day AFTER…… into a one of a kind sweet amazing memory as we escape OUR DAILY crazy pain. And that is LOOKING INSIDE WE NEED to find A Way TO BE HAPPY AGAIN! So now thinking more about your soul, and less about the people you know… AND ALSO THINKING LESS ABOUT THE ONES WHO LEFT YOUR BEHIND, OR WHO ARE PRETENDING YOU ARE NOT APART OF THEIR LIFE! DO You must realize, in order for you to SURVIVE all of your HOLLOW DAYS…… WHAT HAPPENS ON EARTH DOES NOT EVEN MATTER! That means, it does not matter if your mother DIED. IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOUR KIDS PRETEND YOU ARE NOT ALIVE. IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOU GOT A PHONE CALL OR PRESENTS. IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOU DIDN’T GET ANY FRIGIN BREAKFAST IN BED. IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOUR MOTHER WAS WONDERFUL. IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOUR MOTHER WAS LOVING OR KIND. IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOUR MOTHER WAS CREEPY AND LEFT YOU BEHIND. IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOUR MOTHER WAS A RATTLE SNAKE AND MADE YOU CRY. BECAUSE NONE OF THAT MATTERS IN YOUR LIFE ANYWAY! HAPPILY THE ONLY THING THAT WILL EVER MATTER! IS WHAT HAPPENS AFTER LIFE’S DISASTERS! Bottom line one more time, what REALLY MATTERS IS FINDING THE BEST THINGS IN LIFE TODAY! That means, WHAT REALLY MATTERS IS FINDING YOUR PEACE AND HAPPINESS AND THE BEST THINGS IN LIFE TODAY!!! That’s why, TO BE HAPPY ALSO COMPLETE TODAY YOU MUST IGNORE YOUR PAST PAIN…DOING THAT YOU WILL REALIZE WHAT HAPPENED IN YOUR PAST OR WHAT HAPPENED ON MOTHERS DAY..DOES NOT MATTER ANY WAY. BECAUSE THE PAST CAN NOT LAST UNLESS YOU INVITE YOUR PAST INTO YOUR TODAY…….AND SAYING THINGS THAT WAY AS YOU FIND THE WAY TO BE HAPPY NOW NO MATTER WHAT OTHERS DO OR SAY….You will realize WHEN THE TIME COMES AND EARTH GOES AWAY. AFTER YOU HAVE ENJOYED YOUR NIGHTS AND DAY! That BY BEING HAPPY INSIDE WITH YOU KEEPING YOUR EYES ON CHRIST! That You too will find the Heavenly DELIGHT that will last FOREVER NOW and throughout Paradise. And that’s more great insight. BEING HAPPY NOW… after you stop crying…. Right AFTER your HOLLOW DAYS have gone away! You, WILL HAVE REALIEZED once you are SAVED from SATAN’S PAIN…. WHO SATAN BY THE WAY IS THE ONE WHO INFLICTS ALL OF YOUR HOLLOW DAYS WITH PAIN……. To find a way to smile EVERY DAY. While realizing THAT NOTHING HAPPENING ON EARTH MATTERS ANYWAY! Everything will be Alright AFTER….. Because AFTER YOU SURVIVE THE FACTS OF LIFE AND YOU FIND THE WAY TO BE HAPPY INSIDE….there will Never be another HOLLOW HOLIDAYS DISASTER IN YOUR LIFE.” Joslin Fitzgerald…The Mary Author…….