“Good morning world, as I blend my A Daily Celebration journal reflection in with the adjoining scripture….. please read (Philippians 2:4) This is the guiding light and life changing verse that I have researched and picked to highlight my blog post today. Likewise, please enjoy my coordinating original Merry Mary blog thought that ties the scripture into my new journal quote which is as follows… ( Are you happy!? So making that hopeful inquiry, while temporarily changing my srping, and stormy themes to another date. Realizing that we need to keep Celebrating life, as your Celebration has gone away… was your Mother’s Day happy?! And that’s an important question and or exclamation mark inquiry to ask you day after day, because like it or not…You will always need to find a way to be Happy on any Date that comes your way! Yes, that’s important…. since finding Happiness will keep you from going Crazy! So, knowing like the other DATES we Celebrate, that Mother’s day should always stay!! Likewise realizing, since you and others around you are Alive…. at one time or the other you were, or had a Mother! Also knowing if you have children …. no matter what they think about you…you ARE a Mother! To find happiness that will Stay even if love has gone away… or love has turned its back on you… You must find a way to keep HAPPINESS Alive ALL-DAY ad NIGHT THROUGH! That’s why to take the question marks out of life, and put the exclamation marks back in…to keep Happiness alive you need to realize being UNHAPPY IS A WASTE OF YOUR TIME! Bottom line, BEING UNHAPPY IS WRONG, since day also night BEING UNHAPPY WILL RUIN YOUR HEALTH and MIND! That’s why, you need to remember THE ACT OF MOTHERING, and Having a Mother will always be the best part of SHARING AND CARING! And unlike breakfast in bed, calls, or presents… CARING AND SHARING are the MOTHERING parts of Happiness… that will always be important. So in the desire to CARE AND SHARE you need to remember that LOVE COMES FROM HEAVEN ABOVE! That means, whether you are a mother, or not… you must never forget to take care of you… as you also guard your family, and friends hearts. Bottom line, remember as Jesus teaches us to LOVE US… as we also love our kids and others, no matter what, CARING AND SHARING will bring you happiness! So, realizing NO MATTER WHO you are when you love somebody you are a mother. By sharing your love and caring with everybody who you know you will find even without getting breakfast in bed, calls, or presents you will be happy with You, and your life. Bottom line realizing that you are HAPPY being you and you are happy with your days and nights.. when you realize LOVE COMES FROM ABOVE there WILL ALWAYS BE A NICE REASON TO CELEBRATE EVERY DAY AND NIGHT of YOUR HAPPY, AND FULLFILLED TIME !”)JF And thinking along these lines while asking you these Mothering questions, from yesterday, since I know THAT NOT ALL OF YOU INCLUDING ME WERE COMPLETELY HAPPY YESTERDAY…. I thought I would put out some different SURVIVING THE FACTS OF LIFE thoughts for you to contemplate. Because like it or not…you need to find a way to be happy on this hollow day that will continue to come your way. And that happiness will always be important to your sanity…., since mother’s day never goes away! So, knowing that like the other important days that mothers day is also every day!!!! While realizing, since you are alive…..that at one time or the other you had a mother! Also knowing if you have children….. Who are right now breathing…. That you are a mother! To survive those other depressing facts of life….and to find happiness day and night…even if love is gone or love has turned its back and gone wrong. You must find a way to keep love alive all day long! And to do that you must realize….. That being unhappy is a complete waste of your time! Okay let me say that again and again because being unhappy is a complete waste of your time! Being unhappy is a complete waste of time. Being unhappy is wrong! And being unhappy will ruin your life! That’s why, for you to be happy in your life. You need to find a way to co-exist with your mother. Or you need to find a way to survive your mother’s memories day and night! And that’s also important if you want to survive the facts of life! Because making those saving statements, in one way or the other when you look in the mirror…. Whether you like it or not in some way your mother will always be there being a part of your nose, eyes, or life every day. Bottom line, there will never be an escape from your mother’s face!!!!! So thinking about things in a normal way…. Knowing whether you look like her or not, that she will be seen in your life place, and face… realizing there is no escape from Mother’s day, since Mother’s day will always be every day! Let me be one of the first to again say…. 365 day out of the year…. Happy EVERY DAY Mother’s day to all of you mothers out there. And I pray yesterday, today, and Every day since we all had mothers, And some of us are mothers….that you ALL have a great Mothers day, EVERY DAY of the year! I also hope that you spoiled the mother who gave birth to you as you two prayed, praised, and played too. And stating that fact, while combining your Mother’s day thoughts with mine, I think you will agree with me in a mother’s beautiful love, and steadfast soul that we have all discovered our purpose and rest. Because, in our mothers’ eyes we have each found our breath, and realized we will always be the best. Yes just because we had a mother….. We will always be blessed! And passing that love on… while being a mother we also have passed one of our major life’s tests. Because just saying the word Mother…. And with some of us being mothers, Our souls have eternally blossomed and bloomed like a beautiful rose. And in the growing love that we have now or have had before…. Physically or in memory just to hold her hand… or feel the touch of her heart….. or hear her voice…that mothering adoration has never grown old BECAUSE LOVE FROM THE START NEVER DEPARTS! But wait a minute !!! What if that is not your story to be told. What if in having a bad mother, your memories are cold. What if you have not seen things that lovely way? What if your mother abandoned you one dark day. What if your mother was mean to you? What if your mother gave you away. What if your mother still makes you angry, sad and blue today? Or what if for no good reason you walked away from her too! Bottom line again. What if your mother does not make you happy in everything you say, and do? What if there will never be a happy Mothers day for you! What if you are clueless! Well again……. I have more GOOD news for you! Because there is a way for you to be Happy on Mother’s day and everyday too. And all you have to do is BE HAPPY WITH YOU. And TO BE HAPPY WITH YOU ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS RETHINK your bad, sad attitude! And that is RETHINK will always be important because to NOT WASTE ONE SECOND OF THE DAY BEING UNHAPPY… you need to realize, at one time or the other….. WE ALL HAD A LOVING MOTHER! AND IN HER LOVE ONE DAY OR NIGHT THAT SHE GAVE YOU THE LOVING GIFT OF LIFE! AND IN HER HEART OF LOVE AND GARDEN OF DEVOTION JUST BECAUSE SHE CARRIED YOU THROUGH… AND GAVE BIRTH TO YOU… SHE PROVED HER KINDNESS, AND ADORATION. AND IN HER LAUGHTER THAT WILL ALWAYS BE THERE IN OUR SOUL MATES CONNECTION……EVEN IF IT WAS ON THE DELIVERY TABLE FOR A BRIEF SECOND…… WE ALL KNOW IN HER SAFE AND LOVING WOMB…. THAT EVERYBODY IN ONE WAY OR THE OTHER…… HAS KNOWN A HAPPY HOME WITH THEIR MOTHER . And that’s good to know, because, in that clue no matter what life throws at you or has already thrown at your ,mother in that delivery clue… in the womb of life….. Love will always remain constant and true! Yes that great to know BECAUSE IN THE WOMB THERE NEVER WAS SADNESS, UNREST, UNPLEASANT WORDS, OR ANY NEEDED EXPLANATION FOR HER DECISIONS LEADING TO YOUR DISAPPOINTMENTS, MESSES, STRESS, TESTS OR THERAPY. Therefore, behind many doors leading to many more questions now or before, even in adoption, anger, abandonment, ANGER or deaths calling. We all know because she gave us life..that none of us have ever known the separation from the umbical cord love of our mother BECAUSE HAVING A MOTHER WE HAVE A HOME, AND WE WILL NEVER BE ALONE! That’s why, sharing blood, mind, and eyes, a face, and a family trees trace, that no matter what happens, just by HER giving you life….. Until you run out of time….. Love in the womb, will never die! That means, thankfully no matter if the miles around us are separated by mistakes, states, hate, pain or heavens pearly gates….. For at least one moment in our life. As she gave her child breath and she gave us sight! We have each known from the glorious first day with us being a CELL OF LIFE…. WHEN OUR HEART STARTED BEATING INSIDE OUR CHEST AND UNDERNEATH HER BREASTS in our heavenly gift of love from up above we were never alone, because in our mother we found our earthly home and forever love! Therefore, thinking about a mother’s love…… No matter where she roams or has gone We also know that being a part of our mother we will never be alone! That means, whether your mother is here on earth, or watching your life show from above… We have all known…. Just by her giving you the gift of life, that in her love, we were in her prayers…… AND AS, SHE RISKED HER LIFE TO GIVE BIRTH TO YOU!!!. THAT’S WHEN SHE SHOWED YOU THAT SHE CARED. Because when she shared her love and guided her child from the first cries calling from above that’s when your mother proved her face memory AND LOVE will always be there!! So, knowing that to be true, you must realize no matter how you feel about your mother…..that sweetly in gentle phrases and varied stages, in review…….. AT SOME TIME OR THE OTHER IN HER LIFE…. YOUR MOTHER LOVED YOU!!!!! And in the love of breath, that started your life’s party at birth…. You have to know that you will always be the best part of her beating heart, and soul. Yes that’s good to know because just like a rose from the start any mother was (and always will be) the picture of GODS PERFECT ART! Bottom line one more time before you miss the point of Mothers day…. that by the way is EVERYDAY! As you have painted your life canvas together, or watched the paint dry separately apart. We all should be pleased we have seen it all, and that our life even had a chance to start! So now thinking about things a different way, If you forgot to call her yesterday. Or you were mad at her and had nothing to say. Or you were too busy or too far away. Give your mother a call or send her a present today!!!! NO its not to late to celebrate mothers day TODAY…BECAUSE MOTHERS DAY IS EVERYDAY!!!Then doing what is right, remember if she is still alive, that it’s never too late to show your love or appreciation. Because as I keep saying Mothers day is EVERY DAY!!! that blessed loving and beginning statement of breath makes every day…. From the delivery rooms call….. A happy Mothers day for one and all AND KNOWING YOU WERE AND ARE STILL LOVED THAT MAKES EVERY DAY A HAPPY DAY!” joslin fitzgerald……the mary author……SO HAPPY EVERY DATE AFTER MOTHER’S DAY TO YOU ALL!