“Good morning world, as I blend my A Daily Celebration journal reflection in with the adjoining scripture….. please read (Psalm 16: 11) This is the guiding light and life changing verse that I have researched and picked to highlight my blog post today. Likewise, please enjoy my coordinating original Merry Mary blog thought that ties the scripture into my new BOOK which is as follows… (“Now, putting a QUESTION MARK where there should be an Exclamation Mark, are you wondering if there will always be a problem with Mother’s Day? Next making that curious inquiry, while starting my… happy or Not… blog thoughts off about this new holiday or HOLLOW DATE, how important is… Mother’s Day anyway. And if you don’t have a mother standing by your side, can you have a Happy Mother’s Day and life. Likewise, if your kids have gone away can you have a Happy Mother’s Day.… Okay wait… what if you are disappointed today, and no presents or breakfast in bed, comes your way can you have a Happy Mother’s Day if nothing goes your way. And in a different thought what if your mother has died and gone away… can you have a Happy Mother’s Day if love has flown away. Bottom line if you don’t celebrate Mother’s Day… can you be HAPPY anyway? Well to answer these hourly questions that have to do with your Happiness that needs to stay! Remember no matter the Date…Life Should Always Be Celebrated Daily, since that Gift Of Time will never again come your way! That’s why you must never take any night or day for granted, because whether it is Mother’s day or not you will always have a reason to celebrate being you! So, to appreciate your time in new ways you need to be HAPPY every night also day. And as you become Happier on every Date…remember through your Salvation Jesus Christ will always give you a reason to Celebrate! Yes, that’s great news, because in Jesus’ LOVE whether you are a mother or not, OR if your mother has gone away. OR if your kids disappoint you today! Knowing that you are a beloved Child of God your life will constantly be full of joy, mothering, and Happiness Every day! Therefore, shore to shore by TAKING THE QUESTION MARK OUT OF LIFE and putting the EXCLAMATION MARK IN… because Jesus Christ loves you for being You, Jesus will make every DATE of your life and after life a Happy CELEBRATION Day, and night!) Next making everyday a DATE OF CELEBRATION that goes for every day, and night now and continuing through to Paradise. So, saying things that way let me be one of the first to say Happy Mother’s Day?! But WAIT again, while using an exclamation and a question mark at the same time, while always thinking about things in a different way…. will it really be a Happy Mother’s Day? And asking you that CONCERNING question while wanting you to find your HAPPINESS also your safe shore and secure harbor. By sending out that conflicting message of Celebration or Unhappy insight…. since not all days will be MOTHER DAYS, and not all days will be HAPPY! Temporarily changing my blog’s theme from spring to another kind of Commencement and Celebration… knowing today is Mother’s Day do you expect to be Happy? Or with Mother’s Day coming Undone with you feeling lonely or unappreciated, will Mother’s Day only be happy for some? So, knowing for some that Mother’s Day will be a disappointing bust, How important is it to be a Mother? Also how important is happiness that does not come? And with things over, done or yet to come… will it be possible to be happy if you are missing love? So, thinking about happiness or the lack thereof… how important are Mothers? Likewise, how important is it to Celebrate certain dates. Bottom line if you are not with your mother, or your children are not with you, how important is it to be mothered? Bottom line one more time, can you have a Happy Day if love disappoints day after night… or if love has gone away? Okay, one more time how important is it to have a mother, to be a mother, or to be mothered. And making those inquiries guess what yes you are right because shore to shore it is MOTHER’S DAY once more! That means, sea to sea while TAKING OUT THE QUESTION MARKS AND FOCUSING ON THE HAPPY MOTHERING CELEBRATION once AGAIN… If we PRETEND LONG ENOUGH Today will be yet another day full of Peace, Happiness, Celebration, Mothering, and Comfort. Therefore, to commemorate the sweet fact…. that Mothers…. are where all of the ABOVE is and where it’s at! Since our original MOTHER’S DAY was where our heartbeat first started….. In that flashback to keep our Holiday thoughts on track….. I thought I would share a MOTHER’S DAY Thought with you that came to me in a dream a couple of years back. So, to Celebrate the Love that they have given us. Even though our mothers will never be perfect, and that is a fact! Knowing that they are doing the best they can. Also knowing as kids and as mothers we will never be angels and that is a fact too! Since we all try to be the best and sweetest mother we can be. To commemorate them….and to celebrate us sea to sea! Let’s take this day…. To remember what it means to be a mother…. Also, what it means to have a mother…. And what it is like to be mothered! So, whether your children are nearby or far away…..whether we have kids at home or not… whether you are appreciated or not! Please enjoy a small part of… my mothering heart that’s all about a mother’s love. And giving you that holiday invitation, let’s take a moment to celebrate mothers and love! And that’s another great place to start. Because mother’s day is where everything started for all of us!!!! That means in her laboring……and in her great gift of love!!! From the start of our heartbeat, it will always be good to know that even though they will never be perfect in any way. And even though mothers will never be Angels. We need to remember that a mother’s love will always be full of gentleness and comfort. So as my poem begins…we all know that happily in that laboring mothering fulfillment we will always thrive on our mother’s kisses. A mother’s love will always define breath and existence. And in that earthly survival there will forevermore be great blessings, since heaven delights in her wishes. Likewise a mother’s love will always support our talents and gifts. That’s why, when we are far away from our mother, our heart aches….. Since her encouragement we will always miss. A mother’s love will always comfort her kids. Because in her security we have been blessed by her joyful reassurance! A mother’s love will always speak in loving divine silence. Therefore, in life, a mother needs to say no words as she guides! And always hearing her voice inside of our minds, whether she is far away or nearby. That’s good to know, because her hugs, goodness, help, guidance, and direction have always been her silent loving heart felt intent and one of the great purposes of her soul. In every way a mother’s love will always inspire everybody night and day. So, whether she is here to stay for a little while…. Or she is in Heaven waiting to see you again, since some mothers have already gone far away. Your mother will always be near… since love will always remain and that means love near ends ! So, knowing her love is in our heart forever. We should all be happy on all 365 mothers’ days this year and the others in past, also future….. that from the start… She is still here guarding our heart! And that’s a blessing that will never depart from us. Because along the way there will always be a heavenly song with a lifetime full of heart-warming encouragement and endless love that will last our life long! That means, every night and every day a mother’s love will always steer and guide us from dusk to dawn. And gleefully in that loving contentment found in a baby’s breath, a mother will eternally lead you toward Heaven, as she is directed by the Lord’s kindness, and guidance. That’s why, following in the Angel’s footprints, on earth as in Heaven. A mother’s love will always be there to make everything alright. And in the sweetness found in our mother’s delightful kisses, her inspirational words will forever be full of praises, promises and direction from Jesus Christ! Likewise, her guidance will be sent to our singing heart on a dove’s wing, held close in heavens christening sight, touched by her love and light. Yes that great to know because a mother’s love will always be nearby all of the time. That’s why, just by taking away our fear by opening our eyes…. Realizing that we have been touched by her forever guiding love that will give us a glimpse into paradise above! We all know whether they are with us today, or if they have gone far away up above…. Into the son light. That our mother will continually be watching over us day and night! After all a mother’s love… will never leave our sight. Because a mother’s love will never be done! Therefore, even though she is only here for a little while to stay in our sight. Or she has gone away into the light and has already opened up heaven’s door and left her breath behind. We must realize just the sweet touch of her hand, or memory of her love seen in the pictures inside of our mind… Will always make everything alright! So, again to all of the mothers out there…. Happy Mother’s Day.. And appreciating your mother’s place in your life, in every way, may you always find the happiness and love she wants for you all of the time in every night and day! And as a mother.. Even though I know None of us are angels. And even though you may feel unappreciated! Even though your kids may not call or send presents! Even though you might not get breakfast in bed. And even though mother’s day may be depressing!!!! Just remember ….BY GIVING THE GIFT OF LIFE TO A CHILD!!! THAT PRESENT OF BREATH THAT ONLY COMES FROM YOU!! WILL ALWAYS BE THE SWEETEST GIFT OF ALL FROM THE BEGINNING. And even though they may not say it. WHEN THEY LOOK INTO THE MIRROR AND THEY SEE YOUR FACE! YOUR CHILDREN WILL ALWAYS KNOW NO MATTER WHAT THEY ARE DOING, OR WHERE THEY GO YOU ARE THERE TOO! That mean no matter who you are there will always be a little bit of You inside of your children….. So knowing that YOU GAVE THEM THEIR FIRST AND ALL OF THEIR BIRTHDAYS! That means, even though mothers will never be Angels! Just because….. All mothers do have an Angel’s heart! All children and mothers will always know love will near depart! So, knowing that a mother’s love will never go away! As I am again sending you a Happy Mother’s Day kiss REMEMBRANCE from your amazing mother… Who was with you on your first birth- day! Additionally…. As I am sending a REMKINDER kiss to all of the other mothers out there who are trying their best every day to be a great mother in every way! Knowing you are a great mother please remember …JUST BECAUSE YOU HELD YOUR CHILD’S HAND FIRST AND GAVE THEM THEIR FIRST KISS!!!!!!!!! THAT YOU NEED TO SEE IN YOUR MOTHERING EYES… AS YOU LOOK INSIDE TO YOUR HEART….. THAT YOUR TRUE PERFECT WORTH… IS DIVINE! So one more time remember even if your child is not there, or if they say they don’t Care! That everything will be delightful in so many ways, because LOVE SEEN IN THE MIRROR ON EARTH… PROVES EVERY NIGHT AND DAY…. IN EVERY WAY….. THAT YOU HAVE ALWAYS CARED BECAUSE YOU WERE THERE FIRST!!! And in that blood related celebration because you first shared the gift of life with your child from dusk to dawn, that mothering love with umbilical cord connection sent from up above will always go on! Because a mother’s love…..from conception to the first heartbeat, next to the first kiss, with all of that leading to the first breath ….will never be done! So, taking out the question mark out and putting the Exclamation mark in knowing your child has your mark of love on their heart and in their eyes… ………Happy Mother’s Day to everyone!” Joslin Fitzgerald….the Mary author…..but wait one more time…what if this sweet lovely image that i painted does not describe your mother…..what if the word mother…does not mean love happiness or warmth to you…..what if in these clues your mother does not know Jesus….what if your mother is more of a demon and less of an angel! Well wondering if or why mother’s day won’t be happy for you….stay tuned….because tomorrow we will talk about what this mother’s date…really meant and means to you!!! And as you go along your way….we will also discuss why for a few of you that there is a question mark in Mother’s Day?